Wise thoughts about resentment towards parents. Statements, thoughts, statuses about offense. Statements of great and successful people about feelings of resentment

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The sage was asked:
- They say that you know everything, but tell us - what is resentment?
The sage brought a porcelain cup to his lips, slowly drank sake from it and answered:
- Here, there are a few drops of sake left at the bottom of the cup. Do I feel offended by this? If I don't want it anymore, then I don't care. And if I didn’t have enough, then I’ll find more sake, pour it into the same cup, and the remaining drops will dissolve in it. And then I'll drink them. That’s how resentment is, a person decides for himself whether to endlessly torment himself with his resentment, or to make sure that it dissolves with benefit.

Living with resentment is quite easy. The mechanism of resentment simplifies a lot. I am good - they are bad, so I was offended. Resentment removes guilt. Resentment even justifies. But if you are offended for a long time and about many things, then after a while you can find yourself beautiful, living in a bad and offensive world among bad and offensive people. And if you don’t be offended, then questions will arise mostly to yourself. And then you can feel not the smartest, not the most right and not the most beautiful in the world, but at the same time live among good people and not in the worst of all possible worlds.

The husband is offended by his wife because he thought that she would realize that he would need a white shirt tomorrow.
The wife is sulking at her husband because she thought that he would think of buying her flowers.
The child is offended by his parents because they should have guessed that he needed a new construction set, etc.
That is, first we figure out how other people should behave. Then we make sure that they don’t behave like that. And we are offended by them for this. This is normal, because in a madhouse that’s not what happens.

There is nothing worse than the anger of people who were once close to us. Unlike the rest of the world, they know all our secrets, all our weak points and every pain point. And when they get angry, they hit with all their might, as painfully as they can. And they consider themselves entitled to do this precisely because they were once close and enjoyed our trust. So, once again opening your soul to someone, it would be nice to remember that this person can someday become a former loved one...

Who will I be able to amaze with this hackneyed truth?
Do not rush to pronounce words born of resentment.
Do not rush to offend your friend with your injustice,
To suddenly drive him into a corner, even though he is no weaker.
He's just a little kinder. he will wait out the rage in silence.
And the sooner you cool down, the more bitter your departure will be.
And then shame will awaken in you. Don’t rush to part with him.
And the friend will only smile sadly. Like tears, the blood will be wiped away from the soul.

Socrates was never offended. He rightly said that this either did not concern him, or if it did, it was right. If you are offended by a person, then he is taller, smarter and more worthy of you. So take an example from him, reach up to his level. And if he is lower, stupider and less worthy than you, then, by being offended by him, you exalt him with your offense, and humiliate yourself.

A person has offended you, but you go and do him good, give him the warmth and affection of your soul, and the knot will be untied, the anchor will fall from your heart. After this, you will both live and breathe easier. Through such victories with love in the places of your defeat, the heart, step by step, victory after victory, will gain purity.

We waste so much time suffering from grievances that we won’t even remember in a year. No, you need to devote your life to actions and feelings worthy of a person. Let us be inspired by great thoughts, genuine affections, immortal deeds. After all, life is too short to waste it on trifles.

Even if you offended me, why do I need your apology? This is your life and your actions. We make our life by our actions. And if we do the wrong thing, we end up in trouble later. What to do - right or wrong? There is freedom of choice here.

No matter how much you are offended, you still need to trust people, otherwise you will become like a hermit in a cave, who is on alert even in his sleep. Danger can never be avoided anyway. Life is even deadly dangerous, even fatal at the end of life.

There is nothing more enduring than hopeless love. Mutual love may get boring. Passionate love turns into friendship or hatred. But unrequited love will never completely leave the heart, so firmly will resentment cement it.

I'm never angry with anyone. There is nothing anyone can do that deserves such a reaction from me. You get angry with people when you feel that their actions are important. I haven't felt anything like this for a long time.

Think before you say anything.

1. The girl you called a whore is a virgin.

2. The girl you called fat is starving herself.

3. You made fun of the guy because he cried. His mother died.

4. The girl you called a stupid bastard, she doesn’t drink, doesn’t smoke and is an excellent student.

5. The girl you call scary is not beautiful, you just don’t like her.

6. The girl you humiliate in front of everyone is already treated poorly at home.

7. The girl you call pimply refuses sweets, buys the most expensive drugs and hates herself.

8. The girl you call a nerd will soon join the budget and achieve a lot, but you won’t.

9. The girl you tell that she dresses poorly is saving on herself for the sake of her family.

10. The girl you call a gray mouse secretly writes songs and has a good voice, because she has a talent for drawing and soon she performs at a talent show, then her own producer appears and she becomes popular throughout the world. She begins to sell her paintings, collects her income, and then exhibits her masterpieces in her own painting gallery.

11. Girl, 15 years old, you are swearing at her because she is suicidal. She keeps secret all the betrayals and humiliations addressed to her. It’s also possible that someone died.

12. A girl who laughs often and seems to “get fucked.” She cries at night because... her parents beat her and tries to be happy at least during the day.

13. The girl you're trashing about the fact that she has small breasts. It's because of you that she takes an armful of pills so as not to think about her shortcomings.

14. The girl you call ugly hates herself, trying to change somehow, but we are born without choosing our appearance, there is no need to insult a person’s appearance.

15. The girl you tell to eat less and play sports goes to dances, always does physical education, swims in the pool and eats once a day.

16. The girl you call crazy because... she spends little time outside. Maybe someone got sick? Deadly?

17. The girl you call crazy because... she is being treated by psychiatrists. All her friends abandoned her and her mother died.

18. The girl whom you humiliate every day puts a scar on herself every evening, in memory of this. And at this time, as if nothing had happened, you enjoy life.

19. A girl who is in love with you and has done nothing wrong towards you, every day she drowns in the dirt that you pour on her with a grin on her face.

20. You will never understand why a girl who is trying to attract your precious attention will be offended at you when you tell her: “Aren’t you tired of it?”

21. The guy you called a freak, he had an accident.

22. A 15-year-old girl is holding a one-year-old child in her arms and you call her a whore, but you don’t even realize that she was raped at 13.

23. Seeing a man with scars on his face on the street, you call him a freak, not knowing that he came to this because of serious damage to his face, serving his homeland and saving the lives of millions of people.

Be correct.

Resentment is not worth blood, but only oblivion. Pythagoras

Resentment in a relationship means putting extra stones on it. The stronger the offense, the greater the burden on your feelings. And even the strongest will sooner or later collapse under this load. The ability to forgive is available only to the wise; the ability to ask for forgiveness is the lot of the strong in spirit.

You can’t accumulate grievances against loved ones, they don’t want to harm you, they don’t realize it. And if the person is not close, why pay attention to him at all?

Fate reserves for each of us a whole arsenal of hardships and trials. (Manilius)

The most valuable skill is the ability to prevent grievances before they occur. Democritus

If you don’t have the strength to forgive, it’s usually enough to remember how many times you yourself have been forgiven.

You can simply create a shell around yourself. And just as fur saves you from the cold wind, so this barrier will nullify all external insults. (Leonardo da Vinci)

We remember the good for a short time, the bad - all our lives. Pierre Buast

To be understanding means either to forgive completely or to cultivate an even greater resentment. (Unknown author)

Continuation beautiful quotes read on the pages:

You cannot humiliate a person without humiliating yourself with him. (Booker Taliaferro Washington)

Memory and conscience have always diverged and will continue to diverge on whether offenses should be forgiven. (George Saville Halifax)

Resentment has more power over a woman than love, especially if that woman has a noble and proud heart. Navarre M.

Resentment and hatred cannot be satisfied - the only way to heal them is forgiveness.

An offensive word spoken impulsively does not offend as much as an offensive word spoken thoughtfully. Saying it in the heat of the moment does not mean doing it. This can be forgiven.

A non-offensive person is the kind of person whom you tell him to go to hell, and he will return rested and with magnets as a gift.

Smart people don't get offended, they draw conclusions. Unknown author

Every reasonable argument causes offense. Stendhal (Henri Marie Bayle)

There is a saying that one must either speak well of the dead or say nothing. In my opinion, this is stupidity. The truth always remains the truth. For that matter, you have to restrain yourself when talking about the living. They can be offended, unlike the dead. Christy A.

Just as warm clothes protect against cold, endurance protects against resentment. Increase patience and calmness of spirit, and resentment, no matter how bitter, will not touch you.

If you were offended, don’t think about why they did it, but answer yourself the question of why you allowed them to do it.

If someone has offended you, take revenge courageously. Remain calm - and this will be the beginning of your vengeance, then forgive - this will be the end of it.

Previously, I rejoiced at his every message, then with bated breath I waited for his call... And then something went wrong... and dead silence... well, now it makes me happy just by his appearance in the GUESTS section...

Resentment has more power over a woman than love, especially if that woman has a noble and proud heart. (Margarita of Navarre)

this is not a quote, this is a cry from the soul... the devil pulled me to go to Odnoklassniki, there I found out that my beloved man got married...))) it is impossible to describe the feelings and pain... I had the strength to write a message wishing happiness) I am strong and will survive! But how painful it is now...

Silence and faith - alas, is not my motto! I will not allow myself to be offended for nothing. This is my character, my whim, if you like. I was not brought up to remain silent after a blow!

Well, why do you offend me even in my dreams, now I’m scared to sleep... I used to be happy to see you in my dreams... and now I ask you to get out of them from my life, please don’t torment me.

An insult can be more easily endured by hearing than by sight. Publius

If you hurt me again, I will become the same as before. Remind me which one? I'll put it on Short dress, stockings, high-heeled shoes and I’ll go for a walk... through your heart, so much so that the heels will be erased!

At first you are silent because you have come up with a reason to be offended... Then it will be awkward to break the silence. And then, when everything is already forgotten, we will simply forget the language in which we understood each other...

When they try to smear your face on the asphalt, you need an incredibly strong desire to get up and prove with a smile on your face that it DIDN’T WORK!!!

I swallowed my tears so often that I simply became salty. But now I don’t freeze in winter, and in summer I retain moisture well.

There is no need to offend me, I’m a vulnerable girl, I almost immediately burst into tears... And then with tear-stained eyes it’s so difficult to understand who the shovel hit...

You cannot renounce a friend because of every offense. As-Samarkandi

They say it true: “Time heals”!!! Some time passed and the pain really began to gradually dull, some kind of resentment fades away, and the emptiness from the heart slowly begins to disappear...

Insults from those in power must be endured not just patiently, but with a cheerful face: if

Or better yet, offend and be offended yourself. (Unknown author)

I met and fell in love a good man, yes, yes, good. And he still loves his ex-wife and repeats her name in a dream... How painful it is to live with this, how strong love can be in men... It’s just jealous to the point of tears!!!

If you are offended, your offender has succeeded.

Are you not together? But if you really love him, with all your heart and soul, if you can’t sleep without him... maybe it’s not too late to call him, maybe he’s been waiting for your call all this time? (after all, not much time has passed)

The worst predator on earth is a drunken, offended blonde with lipstick in one hand and a phone in the other, who doesn’t care about anything. Even the fact that she is sitting behind the wheel.

This is because you have not forgiven your husband. You decided to live together with your head, but only your bodies are together at a certain time in a certain point in space. And love is gone forever.

The swallowed resentment will sooner or later come out in a certain form in a natural way.

Have you been offended? Don’t rush into battle and don’t rush to take revenge, just sit on the river bank and wait for the corpse of the offender to float past... (Lao Tzu. Chinese wisdom)

At first you are silent because you have come up with a reason to be offended... then it will be awkward to break the silence... and then, when everything is forgotten, we will simply forget the language in which we understood each other...

At first we are silent because we have come up with a reason to be offended... Then it will be awkward to break the silence... And then, when everything is forgotten, we simply forget the language in which we understood each other.

Let someone think that my character is difficult, and that I am complex and proud. The main thing is that there are people in my life for whom it is simple and easy with me, but difficult without me!

Only a woman can change her life with one act: marry someone else, be offended by her beloved, and then name her son after him.

You sit like this, wait for him, and don’t go anywhere all day. And then he will call and say: “I won’t come to you today!” And so it becomes bitter and offensive in my soul!!! I think someone will understand me!!

Never remember past grievances. (Menander)

The greatest insult that can be caused to an honest person is to suspect him of being dishonest. Shakespeare W.

Just one phrase... It’s like a knife to the heart...

Grief does not show its wounds; humiliation does not count insults. Thomas de Quincey

The best remedy defense - attack;

It is easier to offend than to endure an offense.

Destiny beautiful women These are unfounded accusations that discredit their name. At least to plastic surgeon go... to mutilate...

Never remember past grievances.

It hurts not to be able to forgive. And it hurts to say goodbye. And cruel beasts tear a person in half - pride and love.

Sooner or later, each of us will have a moment in life when the people closest to you make a choice that is not in your favor, without realizing it, it’s painful and offensive for you to watch it...

He who harms one harms many. (Unknown author)

What I hate most is your number on my phone. I hate your sudden calls, which do not relieve me of sadness. I don't miss our past meetings. I no longer bare my soul to you. And you didn’t offend me... Only one day I became completely indifferent...

Come, hit me in the face, step back and smile!

Resentment and resentment are like poison that you drink in the hope that others will be poisoned. Happiness begins with forgiveness.

You know, the heaviest insult is easier to bear... if you swallow it, along with the offender!!! Nothing hurts a person more than the fragments of his own happiness.

Beware of the one who did not answer your blow. (George Bernard Shaw)

The strength of the insult does not depend on the nature of the insult. The strength of the offense depends on the proximity of the one who offends you... Than closer person, the stronger the offense!

If you are offended, the enemy has succeeded. (Konstantin Kushner)

Salvation from all grievances lies in oblivion. Publius

It hurts him - he offends you, it hurts you - you offend him, he takes revenge on you, and so do you... So you bang your head against the same wall from different sides and you don’t care that the door is on the right!

The offender sins not as much as the one who allows the offense. (Basily I the Macedonian)

It’s a shame if you are fired not for abuses committed, but for abuses that were not committed. (Valery Afonchenko)

They will decide that they really offended you and will certainly repeat it. Lucius Annaeus Seneca (younger)

I quietly argue with mine. I'm not yelling. I don't throw tantrums. I just take his toothbrush and silently clean the toilet with it. Quietly, quietly.

It is very easy to turn a compliment into an insult or an insult. Eric Bern

People of small minds are sensitive to petty insults; people of great intelligence notice everything and are not offended by anything. La Rochefoucauld

An insult can be more easily endured by hearing than by sight. (Publius Syrus)

there is a type of people who will spit in your soul and will also behave as if you offended them and should ask for forgiveness

I haven’t had coffee yet, how can I leave? Is it really possible, sir, that on a festive night the guests at the table are divided into two classes? Some are of the first, and others, as that vile, stingy bartender put it, are of the second freshness?

Someday I’ll be very drunk and I’ll tell you everything, everything that’s accumulated in my soul... and you’ll go nuts, you’ll honestly go nuts...

You know, sometimes you write a message to a person, not with your hands, but with your soul. You press: send and the heart in small fractions somewhere in the throat. And then he stops and hits the stomach with a stone. He read it, but didn’t answer... it feels like you’re holding out a piece of your soul to a person, and he’s pushing you face down into the dirt.

It is often better to ignore an insult than to take revenge for it. Publius

Oddly enough, people are more inclined to be offended by someone else's intelligence than by their own stupidity.

To prevent them from entering your soul, it is probably necessary to install a thick armored door, and instead of a peephole - an optical sight, so that before you finally let them in, you can clearly see all the details...

The greatest insult that can be caused to an honest person is to suspect him of being dishonest.

The main value is to Forgive and Understand, even if resentment swirls, we can hug each other with words - I need you so much... - And I need you too.

There are few people for whom the truth would not sound like an insult. (Sophia Segur)

My boyfriend calls me: “Come out, I’m driving up, I stood there for 5 minutes. he’s not on the street... I arrived... I get into the car and grumble for a long time... He was silent, silent, took out a bouquet of roses from the back seat with the words Shut up already, happy anniversary!!!

She wanted to be good... Not at all a bitch, like now... She didn’t want to be cruel... It happened that way... it’s a shame... But it seems like the angel is not evil... Simple deception...? or maybe not…? She herself doesn’t know yet... As she grows up, she will give the answer...

If you have offended someone, then try to correct it. Through confession you will receive forgiveness, but if you try to turn from guilty to right, you will only aggravate your own guilt. Penn William

There is nothing more offensive for a man than to call him a fool, for a woman to say that she is ugly. Kant I.

People who have not forgiven and come to terms with the offense, and especially those who dream of revenge, have a much higher stress level than those who have truly forgiven and let go.

If someone has offended you, don’t sulk, don’t be angry.

It’s strange, but those people who mean nothing in your life sincerely worry about you and sympathize with you. and those you love are indifferent...

People of small minds are sensitive to petty insults. People of great intelligence notice everything and are not offended by anything. (Francois de La Rochefoucauld)

A woman is no worse than a computer - all the grievances caused, although they are put in a basket, can be taken out of there at any time!)

even if you are in pain you can sleep, but if you hurt someone else you will never be able to sleep...

A stupid person remembers insults, a smart person remembers offenders. (Vladimir Turovsky)

Deep-rooted anger cuts too deep. (William Shakespeare)

I'm not upset that he didn't call. I'm offended that I waited like a fool...

Anyone who thinks that new benefits can make the great of this world forget about old grievances is mistaken. (Niccolò Machiavelli)

The phone was treacherously silent. The resentment was so suffocating that it became nauseating... A terrible thought flashed through: Is this really the end? I listened to my inner voice - silence, and only an endless dull aching pain, no, not in the heart... It probably hurts so much when a soul dies... If only he knew how much it hurts...

When you bear a grudge, you create a new one. Publius

Resentment is a negative mixture,
The arrogance in oneself cannot be calmed down
And aggressiveness wanders around,
In everything, he finds a reason for grievances.
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Those who are offended by God should not be offended. ()

It often happens that it is better not to notice an insult than to take revenge for it later. (Lucius Annaeus Seneca (younger))

Resentment has more power over a woman than love, especially if that woman has a noble and proud heart. (Margarita of Navarre)

By insulting another, you are not taking care of yourself. (Leonardo da Vinci)

Never remember past grievances. (Menander)

If a man wants to be considered smarter than he really is, and a woman wants to be considered more beautiful, this delusion is beneficial for both of them and harmless for others. And I would rather make them my friends by indulging them. (Philip Dormer Stanhope Chesterfield)

Just as warm clothes protect against cold, endurance protects against resentment. Increase patience and calmness of spirit, and resentment, no matter how bitter, will not touch you. (Leonardo da Vinci)

The offender sins not as much as the one who allows the offense. (Basily I the Macedonian)

An insult can be more easily endured by hearing than by sight. (Publius Syrus)

Deep-rooted anger cuts too deep. (William Shakespeare)

Anyone who thinks that new benefits can make the great of this world forget about old grievances is mistaken. (Niccolò Machiavelli)

Swallowing insults, you digest yourself. ()

There are few people for whom the truth would not sound like an insult. (Sophia Segur)

If a person cannot swallow an insult, he needs to chew it out! (Evgeny Kashcheev)

The best defense is attack;
Or better yet, offend and be offended yourself. ()

He who harms one harms many. ()

An arrogant apology is another insult. (Gilbert Keith Chesterton)

To understand everything means to forgive everything or to be offended even more. ()

A man who insults a woman with his last words is like a vile that even cattle hates. (Georgy Alexandrov)

A stupid person remembers insults, a smart person remembers the offenders. (Vladimir Turovsky)

If you are offended, the enemy has succeeded. (Konstantin Kushner)

You cannot humiliate a person without humiliating yourself with him. (Booker Taliaferro Washington)

People of small minds are sensitive to petty insults. People of great intelligence notice everything and are not offended by anything. (Francois de La Rochefoucauld)

If you have allowed evil fragments to get into your heart and eyes, suffer and endure. If a fragment comes out of the eyes, sooner or later the one in the heart will come out too!
It will immediately become easy for you and you will go looking for new pain. (S. Lukyanenko)

Beware of the one who did not answer your blow. (George Bernard Shaw)

Memory and conscience have always diverged and will continue to diverge on whether offenses should be forgiven. (George Saville Halifax)

If you are hit on the right cheek, turn your left! ()

For each of us, life has a reserve of grievances, disasters and bitterness at every hour. (Manilius)

It’s better to commit a hundred heavy sins,
To accept a hundred severe torments, to gain a hundred enemies,
How to offend a parent by becoming disobedient,
Why not come to him in difficult times when he calls. (Zakhireddin Muhammad Babur)

: The offender sins not as much as the one who allows the offense.

Seneca:

The best remedy for resentment is forgiveness.

Solon:

Justice will reign when everyone perceives someone else's offense as their own.

Democritus:

The enemy is not the one who causes offense, but the one who does it deliberately.

Isaac Asimov :

You can be offended when a person repeats insults inflicted in rage after calming down.

Stas Yankovsky:

Resentment is usually an acute internal disagreement with the inevitability of what you yourself have persistently strived for.

Lermontov:

Resentment is such a pill that not everyone with a calm face can swallow; some swallow after chewing it in advance; here the pill is even more bitter.