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Alexandra

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If you start listing all the qualities that you should have a true friend, then he will turn out to be not an ordinary person, but a superman: kind, cheerful, faithful, honest, devoted, helpful, able to support in difficult times and help out of trouble, brave, interesting... And that’s not all. I wonder if there is a person in the world who has all these virtues? All S o ch. R U Perhaps, but there are only a few such people, these are people-heroes, people-legends. But even they have the right to make mistakes, because a person cannot, and should not, be perfect, otherwise he will be very lonely in our world. Who do we choose as our friends? Probably those who have qualities that are of paramount importance to us.
Not all of the above, but only some. And we value this person because he is who he really is. In a friend we value not individual qualities, but the person as a whole: with his habits, manner of behavior and conversation.
You often realize that a stranger to you has become a true friend after shared troubles, failures, difficulties in which a person reveals himself from the inside, unable to lie to himself. A true friend... This is something close, infinitely dear, warm, cozy.
“A friend will not leave you in trouble, he will not ask too much.” Yes it is. But a friend is not only when he is for you. I believe that one-sided friendship is a mirage, an illusion. Friendship is when two people take, but two also give to each other.
Honestly, without deception, without one person using another. Do I possess many of the qualities that I consider important and necessary for a true friend? What am I willing to sacrifice for a friend?
It seems to me that you need to ask yourself these questions more often, that is, become a true friend yourself, and then there will definitely be people who will support you in difficult times, without hesitation, they will give a helping hand and share with you all the sorrows and joys of life.

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Anatoly

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Everyone wants to have a friend who will always be there in times of trouble and happiness. Who can understand at a glance, sympathize or rejoice. It is important that the emotion is one for both.

A friend is considered real if he does not envy successes and does not rejoice in defeats. And the main thing about him is that he knows how to listen. So where do true friends come from?

They are definitely not found in cabbage. And there is no such school yet where they would teach how to become a true friend. And it's not even about appearance; It won’t be that you look at a person and like him so much that you immediately want to be friends. Maybe some steps are needed to find such a comrade? And will the time factor be decisive in this matter?

Many centuries ago it was noted that only the person who himself shows friendliness has a friend. Indeed, if someone constantly frowns and is dissatisfied with everything, criticizes everything with his behavior, manners, and words and pushes him away, how to approach him, how to understand him? What will be the magnet that will keep someone with such a “beech” close to you?

Therefore, someone's smile and gentleness towards the shortcomings of others can make others feel comfortable in the company of such a person. And this is the first step to friendship. Certainly,

you need to get acquainted, get to know this person better, and only after that you can entrust her with some serious thought and see what reaction follows. This is not a test in the strict sense of the word, it is a search for common ground. And the more often your views coincide on some issues, the greater the chances of recognizing a true friend in this person.
It cannot be said that only time-tested relationships can be considered true friendship. After all, sometimes sympathy for a person is born quickly. And it is noticeable that this feeling is mutual. Trust appears, and with it frankness. But time adds confidence and strength to all this. This happens because all people are different, which means they will hurt each other under any circumstances.

Will the friendship survive this? Real - yes! After all true friend knows how to forgive, understand, and most importantly, he always gives another chance. And at the same time does not expect negativity. And if something goes wrong, he won’t reproach you, but will help you fix it. To do this, friends can even sacrifice their own interests, thinking first about the well-being of the other. Over time, two people will learn all this. And they themselves will be their teachers.

So, a true friend is the person who sincerely asks about business, joys and worries, and who always wants to tell the truth. Because he is part of our life.

The most wonderful gift
Made to people after wisdom, -
This is friendship.
La Rochefoucauld
Each of us sees his friend good man.
How do I see a true friend?
First of all, he must be benevolent, friendly, responsive - after all, people so need kindness, unselfishness, and attention.
A true friend must be a master of his word, have modern views on life, and be able to defend his point of view.
I also want the person with whom I am friends to know how to behave in society and always remain himself

By yourself.
I want him to respect human personality, and therefore always be forgiving, soft and compliant.
There are a lot of qualities that a true friend should have, but first of all, he must be truly real and not fake.
A true friend is one who always comes to the rescue. Popular wisdom says: “Don’t have a hundred rubles, but have a hundred friends.” And this is so accurately said! After all, a person who has no friends is like a beggar.
G. Derzhavin noted that friendship is not a service; people are not grateful for it. This is true, because a friend, if he is real, will never demand “payment” for his friendship.
But a true friend is not for a day, not for a month; very often people carry their friendship throughout their lives.

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The concept of friendship is familiar to each of us. Man is a social creature and, naturally, is drawn to his own kind. Many of us have already made friends and acquaintances. They play a certain role in our lives: they help and support in some way. But can we call any of them our true friend? What qualities should he have?

I think that a true friend should be honest, open, sincere, selfless with you; a certain spiritual connection, common interests, and mutual understanding should be established with him. I understand that this is a lot, but it’s not often that you come across true friends. They are tested for years and, in the end, out of many, only a few remain.

Fiction knows many examples of true friendship. One such work is Tolstoy’s “War and Peace.” In it in different forms the relationships between people are described, including the friendship of Pierre Bezukhov and Andrei Bolkonsky. For Pierre, Andrei was an interesting conversationalist, from whom there is a lot to learn, he became a worthy role model. At the same time, Prince Bolkonsky saw in Pierre a real comrade, a pure, sincere soul who needed guidance, and he gladly shared his life experience. They were able to carry their friendship through many obstacles and even death did not become an obstacle to them. After Andrei's death, Pierre still continued to feel his support.

And in the novel “Three Comrades” by Erich Maria Remarque, the strong friendship of three friends who went through the war together is described. They continued to stick together in peacetime, supported each other and even started a common business. It seems to me that the brightest friendly feelings in the work they appear when Robert’s beloved woman needed help. His friends made every effort to save her. For this, Kester sold the most expensive thing he had - a racing car. Fiction knows many examples of true friendship. One such work is Tolstoy's War and Peace. It describes the relationships between people in various forms, including the friendship of Pierre Bezukhov and Andrei Bolkonsky. For Pierre, Andrei was an interesting conversationalist, from whom there is a lot to learn, he became a worthy role model. At the same time, Prince Bolkonsky saw in Pierre a real comrade, a pure, sincere soul who needed guidance, and he gladly shared his life experience. They were able to carry their friendship through many obstacles and even death did not become an obstacle to them. After Andrei's death, Pierre still continued to feel his support.

What should a friend be like? A true friend is a kind, faithful, honest person who comes to the rescue in difficult times, who knows how to help out of trouble... It is not easy to find the owner of such virtues, because each of us has the right to make a mistake. Probably, he has those qualities that are of paramount importance for this particular person. In a friend, we value not individual character traits, but accept him as a whole as a person, with his own habits, behavior, and speech.

It is difficult to answer the question: “What should a friend be like?” Sometimes a true friend becomes someone who has gone through troubles with you and helped you overcome failures. You trust such a person as you trust yourself. A friend will never leave you in trouble. He is a close, dear person, you boldly walk through life with him. The very combination of words “ best friend"causes a feeling of calm and comfort. It’s easy to have a conversation with a real comrade, without thinking that it will be conveyed to someone in a distorted form; you can safely entrust your secrets to such a person. Everyone chooses for themselves what kind of friend they should be.

People always dream of having an open, unselfish person next to them. Remember how many proverbs people have about true friendship: “A friend is a friend in need,” “A best friend cannot replace two more,” “A hundred friends are better than a hundred rubles.” In our life, money cannot replace a friend. Although having a hundred real friends is a utopia. Most often there is one true friend, sometimes two, less often three. After all, not everyone can share or discuss any personal, sometimes intimate situation.

Almost from childhood, everyone thinks about who their best friend is. An essay on this topic is often asked to be written at school. Sometimes, even at a more mature age, it wouldn’t hurt to think about whether you have a best friend? It happens that we are surrounded by a lot of acquaintances, friends, comrades, but there is no real friend. Perhaps this is due to character traits, or there is simply no person nearby for whom we cannot become a “faithful shoulder,” or we simply do not know how to keep secrets? More often than not, it is precisely these “advantages” that hinder friendship. You need to remember that a true friend is not only a person for you, but also you for him. True friendship is a two-way process. Both comrades, going through life, will not offend, will not deceive, and will not remain indifferent when failures occur. They will share both joys and sorrows among themselves, they will lend their shoulder in happy and unpleasant moments.

What a friend should be depends on ourselves. After all, for a true comrade it is possible to sacrifice something and give priority to solving his problems to the detriment of his loved one. A friend’s successes do not cause envy, but delight; and you are as upset about his failures as you are about your own.

Friendship should be valued and treasured, because often the slightest disagreement can lead to a break in relations, which both parties will later regret.

A true friend is a value that should not be wasted, true friends are those who know: one must always remember

The most beautiful gift given to people after wisdom is friendship.

Laroche Foucault

What, in the minds of a modern schoolchild, should a true friend be? What character traits should I have and what qualities should I have? Everyone will give their own answers to these questions. After all, we are all different. Everyone has their own views on life and relationships. Everyone has it different needs and desires. And that's okay, that's right.

Let us first think about what friendship is. Undoubtedly, this is a close and trusting relationship between people that brings joy, pleasure, pleasure and happiness. These relationships are based on mutual trust, acceptance, understanding, affection, as well as common interests, needs and views. This is sincere mutual assistance, dedication, trust between people. After all, every person needs to be understood and accepted, to be trusted and valued.

We all need kindness, as well as attention, responsiveness and selflessness.

What is a true friend like for me, an ordinary modern school student? This is, first of all, a positive and friendly person, with a sense of humor. He is undoubtedly responsive, gentle, polite and friendly. My friend must also be a man of his word; if he said or promised something, then he definitely did it. It is desirable that my friend behave in society politely and with dignity, know the rules of behavior, and respect other human individuals. It is also important for me that the person close to me is always sincere and remains himself in different situations, was real. He was also condescending and fair to other people, as well as to their actions.

For me, one of the main criteria for friendship is mutual interests, common hobbies, perhaps the same hobbies. The time that friends spend together should be interesting and productive. Communication should bring pleasure, inspiration and positive emotions to people who are friends.

A true friend will never leave you in trouble and will always be ready to help. He will be able to listen, if necessary he will give useful advice, and if necessary, just remain silent. A friend will always tell you the truth, even if it’s unpleasant and bitter. He won't flatter you, but he won't criticize you harshly either. A friend will consciously and adequately express his opinion and, if necessary, point out mistakes. He must advise, he must provide all possible help. And I believe that this is exactly how loyal and true friends behave. At least, as a friend, I try to adhere to such rules and principles in life.

“He won’t leave a friend in trouble, he won’t ask too much...” I believe that the words of the famous children's song perfectly reflect the most important and basic criteria of friendship. Be friends, try to become a worthy and true friend! This will make your life happy, joyful, multifaceted and diverse. You will never feel alone. Friendship is a wonderful gift to humanity!